Liking the Child You Love
Author | : Jeffrey Bernstein |
Publisher | : Da Capo Lifelong Books |
Total Pages | : 274 |
Release | : 2009-06-09 |
ISBN-10 | : 9780786748082 |
ISBN-13 | : 0786748087 |
Rating | : 4/5 (087 Downloads) |
Download or read book Liking the Child You Love written by Jeffrey Bernstein and published by Da Capo Lifelong Books. This book was released on 2009-06-09 with total page 274 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: "I shouldn't have to tell him that again!" "She is just so spoiled." "They don't appreciate anything I do for them." Do you feel like you're at the end of your rope? Are you exhausted by your kids arguing over every little thing? Finally there's a name for your feelings: "Parent Frustration Syndrome" (PFS). No kid is perfect, but parents often don't realize just how much their own thoughts, rather than their children's behavior, contribute to being emotionally overwhelmed and discouraged. In Liking the Child You Love, Renowned psychologist Dr. Jeffrey Bernstein offers proven strategies for taming the 9 most common toxic thought patterns that stop us from parenting effectively: The "Always or Never" Trap Label Gluing Seething Sarcasm Smoldering Suspicions Detrimental Denial Emotional Overheating Blame Blasting "Should" Slamming Dooming Conclusions As you identify and put a stop to PFS's negative thought patterns, you'll be amazed at how your kids' defiant behavior quickly improves, without having to raise your voice or dole out harsh punishments. Soon you will have a closer, calmer, and more loving relationship with your kids -- just by changing your own mindset.